2014/1/23 Cecil Westerhof <cldwesterhof@gmail.com>
The following function does (mostly) what I want:
(defun dcbl-check-checkbox-and-move-to-end ()
  (interactive)
  (save-excursion
    (let* ((struct             (org-list-struct))
           (struct-old         (copy-tree struct))
           (item               (line-beginning-position))
           (item-checkbox-type (org-list-get-checkbox item struct)))
      (if (not item-checkbox-type)
          (message "No checkbox found")
        (if (string-equal item-checkbox-type "[X]")
            (message "Checkbox already checked")
          (org-list-set-checkbox item struct "[X]")
          (org-list-write-struct struct (org-list-parents-alist struct) struct-old)
          (org-list-send-item item 'end struct))))))

Update of the count in the parent did not go correctly always. This code does the update correct. (Only the last command is appended.)
(defun dcbl-check-checkbox-and-move-to-end ()
  (interactive)
  (save-excursion
    (let* ((struct             (org-list-struct))
           (struct-old         (copy-tree struct))
           (item               (line-beginning-position))
           (item-checkbox-type (org-list-get-checkbox item struct)))
      (if (not item-checkbox-type)
          (message "No checkbox found")
        (if (string-equal item-checkbox-type "[X]")
            (message "Checkbox already checked")
          (org-list-set-checkbox item struct "[X]")
          (org-list-write-struct struct (org-list-parents-alist struct) struct-old)
          (dcbl-move-item-to-end-of-list item)
          (org-update-statistics-cookies nil))))))


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Cecil Westerhof